1. That anti-gender violence work is connected to the struggle for liberation from all forms of oppression. That means that we cannot expect to solve gender issue first, then tackle race, then class, then homophobia, etc. All of these issues are deeply inter-related and the work that we do has to take into account the fact that we have to be simultaneously working on all forms of oppression. However, MitM does have an explicit focus on gender and masculinity. That means that we'll be always trying to account for the ways that other forms of oppression influence our discussions and strategies to confront sexism and gender violence.
2. That social justice is a process, not an end goal. By this I mean that we'll be doing work to create a world free of the above mentioned forms of oppression, but will most likely never have a world without oppression. However, this doesn't mean that the work isn't necessary. Social justice work is done incrementally. We live in a radically different world than the one our parents and grandparents grew up in, thanks to all of the great work that people have done because they believed that all people were equal.
On a personal level this also means that no one ever knows it all when it comes to these issues. I've seen people who get paid lots of money to speak on different issues make some pretty harmful mistakes because they though that they had "arrived" so-to-speak. It could be said that one of the biggest mistakes that we can make is to think that we already know what's up, and stop thinking critically and being open to growth and challenge. This means that I will mess up. Many, many times. And you all will too. What's important is that we hold each other accountable to the things we say and what we do, in a way that encourages self-improvement and positive growth. That's something that I know we all can do.
3. We all have privilege and we all experience oppression. We all experience these forces differently, and to varying levels. We'll get into this on Wednesday more. When we start to talk about privilege it's often times very uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable because it's recognizing that in various ways we have power because other people do not. We didn't do anything to earn it, but we can do something about dismantling the structure that creates it.
So this blog doesn't have spell check and I probably messed up some words. word?
Here's a couple videos and a blog post that can hopefully contribute to our understanding of the work that we hope to do with Men in the Movement:
Tony Porter from A Call to Men, "The Man Box"
Tim Wise: White Privilege
And a post from Alphafem.net
Alright everyone, thanks again for such a great session on Wednesday, and I'm excited for next week! Same time, same place, and remember that we can still have new participants join at week 2 so if you all have friends who are interested, bring 'em along!
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